Last updated on March 13th, 2026 at 10:26 am

As TPMs, use the authority that comes with our role. At other times, we indirectly use the authority of the leadership team we represent. This is how TPMs generally influence people or teams at the ground level. However, the more we operate outside of our teams, as with external stakeholders for example, the harder it gets to influence people. The most successful TPMs operating at scale are experts in program management, technically astute, and possess the ability to influence people who do not directly report to them. This is called ‘Influencing without Authority.

Our goal here is to give you actionable insights and tips on how to “Influence Without Authority”, walk you through some common challenges that may occur, and offer solutions on how you can improve this skill.

What is Influencing without Authority?

You are tasked with leading a project within your organization but in an unofficial capacity where you’ve been given some responsibilities in creating a schedule and coordinating a team. So long as everyone follows your lead, you should be fine, right? Not exactly.

While your co-workers might not intentionally be trying to thwart your success, their priorities will naturally align with those who hold authority and their jobs—their supervisors. Without a position of authority, your priorities are likely to take a back seat to everything else on your team’s plate.

Does this sound familiar? This is where ‘Influencing without Authority’ would come in, in order to win those team members whose support is needed for the success of your project. You will need to examine what your goals are, who would be able to best help you accomplish those goals and what would motivate them to come on board with what you are doing.

Why is this Skill Important for TPMs?

As a Technical Program Manager, you are like the director of a movie. The director is not responsible for writing the story, or composing the music, or paying the salary for the artists. Yet, the director needs to bring all these stakeholders together to create the movie. Likewise, a TPM is not the one defining or designing the product; they are not the ones coding or testing it. Rather, the TPMs are the ones who bring the teams together and work with them to execute the vision of the product.

So can a Movie Director be compared to a TPM? Not so fast. There is one BIG difference between the two. Movie directors usually hold authority over their artists, whereas a TPM has little to no formal authority over the stakeholders that they’re leading. Being able to influence everyone simultaneously without the benefit of formal authority is not an easy task, but a necessary one in order to drive outcomes for your programs. 

When Leading without Formal Authority – The Challenges

Challenge #1: Building Relationships with Your Stakeholders

As Guy Kawasaki says “If a person does not have a deep relationship with people, he/she does not have much influence over them”. 

TPMs are often so focused on their own functional silos that they don’t have a chance to network or build professional relationships beyond their internal group, which should ideally be included in their networking and coalition-building efforts. Moreover, TPMs experience intense pressure to prioritize managing and executing responsibilities over building relationships.

Challenge #2: Building Relationships in a Virtual Environment 

Given the new normal we are all maneuvering post-pandemic, TPMs have gained added complexities to their networking and relationship-building efforts because of the virtual environment at work. The challenge of building relationships when everyone is at home and meeting through video conferencing is at least 10 times more difficult to navigate.

Challenge #3 – Influencing People Outside Your Organization

Getting cooperation, compliance, motivation, and momentum from cohorts outside your reporting structure is challenging. But it’s even more challenging to get cooperation from members outside your organization.

Challenge #4 – Influence People who are in Levels Above You

Your influence does not apply only to your peers. To develop a good working partnership, being able to influence your boss and superiors is vital. When you have a chance to interact with a Senior Executive, you will often get only a few minutes to make those minutes count. 

Challenge #5 – Influencing a Team as a Whole

The biggest challenge that you will face is inspiring your team when kicking off a new program. At times, they also need to be able to nudge the team in a particular direction. 

Effective Tactics to Influence Without Authority 

We have discussed a few key challenges you may have to face as a TPM. The following are suggestions to up your leadership skills and become more adept at influencing those around you.

These do not come with a guarantee. However, they are intended to improve your odds of successfully reaching your goals.

1. Build Those Relationships

Regardless of job title, an effective leader is someone who understands that relationships can be a powerful tool for influencing. Cultivate a broad network of relationships with the people inside and outside your company whose support you need to carry out your initiatives. Set up those 1:1s, coffee chats or a casual meet-up when time permits. If networking doesn’t come naturally to you, create a personal discipline through which you can acquire this capability. 

Taking the time to truly get to know the people you work with can mean the difference between a potential ally who wants to help you succeed and someone who is indifferent to your success or failure. 

2. Establish Yourself as an SME among Your Peers and Management 

If you want to influence others in your organization and motivate them to listen to you, one of the surest methods is to develop expertise in your focus area. Doing so will allow you to position yourself as an authority and as a valuable resource. Using your expertise to back up your recommendations, plans, or projects can lend an air of authority and convince others you really do know what you’re talking about.

3. Exchanging Currencies 

Exchanging currencies refers to finding out what other people value, and what you can offer in exchange for what you need. Influence is a form of exchange, so you must identify the currencies – the valuable resources you can swap in exchange for cooperation from others. 

Simple gestures such as giving a peer recognition to someone who has gone out of their way to support you, an email of appreciation cc’ing their manager or good feedback during a performance appraisal can go a long way in paying them back for the support you have received.  

4. Constructive Persuasion and Negotiation

People feel more valued when they have a say in the matter. So never go up to a team lead and ask them for a status update or commitment on a project, without showing them the big picture. Establish relationships by communicating and getting their input. Explain the purpose behind why something is important to the team. This is where the correct use of persuasion and negotiation comes in. When people feel communicated and they understand the bigger picture, there is a greater likelihood they will want to contribute. 

Identify Your Style of Influence

Another important facet of influence is how you operate as an individual. It’s important for us to understand our natural bent when influencing people. Below are key questions to ask yourself in discovering your influence style:

  • Rationalizing: Do you use logic, facts, and reasoning to present your ideas? Do you leverage your facts, logic, expertise, and experience to persuade others?
  • Asserting: Do you rely on your personal confidence, rules, law, and authority to influence others? Do you insist that your ideas are heard and considered, even when others disagree? Do you challenge the ideas of others when they don’t agree with yours? Do you debate with or pressure others to get them to see your point of view?
  • Negotiating: Do you seek compromises and make concessions to reach an outcome that satisfies your greater interest? Do you make tradeoffs and exchanges in order to meet your larger interests? If necessary, will you delay the discussion until a more opportune time?
  • Inspiring: Do you encourage others toward your position by communicating a sense of shared mission and exciting possibility? Do you use inspirational appeals, stories, and metaphors to encourage a shared sense of purpose?
  • Bridging: Do you attempt to influence outcomes by uniting or connecting with others? Do you rely on reciprocity, engaging superior support, consultation, building coalitions, and using personal relationships to get people to agree with your position?

Vital Behaviors to Cultivate Influence

To be in a position of influence, one has to have the following vital behaviors, which are essential in engagement: 

  • Focus & Clarity: The most important thing when you are trying to influence people or a decision is to be incredibly precise about what your vision is and what you are trying to achieve as a TPM. You will need to be able to emphasize why this vision is essential and is of value to your organization and your end customers. 
  • Build Trust: Building a relationship also involves building trust, which in turn will help you when you need to influence people. Trust is required for practical problem solving, collaboration, and dispute resolution, and in order to build trust in these types of situations, it is important to start with an open mind. An open mind helps you connect with others. Also, to build trust, one needs to admit faults quickly and emphatically, credit others for their work, and engage with empathy. While trying to have open and honest dialogues, being considerate, authentic and transparent is key.
  • Connect on Commonalities: Keep coming back to the vision and the common goals that you and the person you are trying to influence have. This is important because though you might disagree on the method or timing of the execution of a plan, you will need to agree that X needs to be done. Finding common points of agreement, rather than focusing on the areas of disagreement, can be a huge win in the long run. 
  • Understand and Connect with Others’ Core Desires: As a TPM, you will need to grasp the core desires of all your stakeholders. This is critical as each of your stakeholders may have a core desire that is different from your program’s core vision. And this is normal. It’s on you to understand their core desire and ensure it’s brought into the strategy of the program you are running if it is the right thing to do. Influencing others is a matter of discerning what they truly want and offering to them a mutually beneficial outcome. 
  • Multiplier Effect: When dealing with teams outside your sphere of influence, TPMs need to find the most influential people & the key decision-makers, and bring them the vision with clarity and empathize with their concerns and feedback. 
  • Magnify Progress: As TPMs, it’s our responsibility to give credit where it is due. It is you who needs to give people and teams a pat on their back and also let your senior leadership know of the progress that they are making. 

Conclusion

To sum it up, influencing is a skill that you should work on if you are in a leadership position at any level. Again, by “leadership position”, we refer to a managerial responsibility without necessarily having the authoritative power. 

As Anne Morris rightly put in one of her talks, “informal authority often gets rewarded with formal authority”. You start to lead and as you become more and more successful in leading you to move up in an organization. 

So don’t hesitate to spend the extra time and effort to work through the challenges and sharpen the skills needed in building influence. 

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FAQs: Influencing Without Authority

What is the fastest way for a TPM to build influence in a new organization?

Start by solving a real problem that others care about. Influence grows when people see you reduce friction or bring clarity to something that was previously messy. Early wins create credibility faster than just networking. Involve others to come up with solutions. You need to be seen as the driving force that paves the way for decisions to be made, not necessarily having to make the decision yourself. This creates visibility and trust amongst the folks who are the movers and players or key contacts. Constantly ask for feedback from your manager on what you are doing well, what you can do better and quiz them on how they influence others.

Why do technically strong TPMs sometimes struggle to influence others?

Technical depth earns respect, but influence requires translating that depth into outcomes others care about. Engineers may care about architecture quality, while product leaders care about timelines and customer impact. Influence comes from connecting the technical decision to the broader outcome and prioritizing what has a direct impact on the end goal without getting stuck in the weeds. Being technical means knowing what the key components are, their constraints/bottlenecks, why a certain technology was chosen. A TPM should be able to draw an outline box diagram of the architecture on a whiteboard and collaborate with engineers to understand what is working and what is not or what can be improved. This will allow them to contribute and influence the decision versus coordinate the decision-making process alone.

How do you influence stakeholders who simply don’t prioritize your program?

First understand what they are measured on i.e. their success metrics. If your program doesn’t help them succeed in their goals, it will always be a second priority. The real work is reframing the program so it advances something they already care about. Just being friends wont move the needle as they need to be strategic on how they use their resources and time as well. Work with them to document what the ask is, what their concern/challenge in meeting the ask is and what the workarounds/options are. Clearly writing this down will force both sides to stay focused on the specific ask, why it cannot be met and the tradeoffs needed for it to be met. Most times, the reasoning and ROI will help convince the teams or provide the basis for an escalation to the next leadership level.

What is the biggest mistake TPMs make when trying to influence senior leaders?

They bring problems without context, recommendations or options. Executives rarely want raw issues. They want a clear problem statement, trade-offs, and a recommended path forward. TPMs need to have done the ground work to brainstorm options, try to get alignment on a path forward before going in front of a leader. They need to do all of this quickly to unblock the program.

How can a TPM influence a team that is skeptical of program management?

Earn trust by demonstrating that you understand the work. When engineers see that you grasp the architecture, dependencies, and technical risks, they are far more willing to follow your lead. Sit in on design reviews, read their design docs (multiple times till you grasp some of the concepts or look them up), set up an hour with an engineer and ask them about the key components of the architecture, failure points, what they would improve and what causes the most pain. Take notes and try not to ask the same questions again. At the end, be able to draw a box diagram of the various key components in the architecture with inputs and outputs. When you show the team that you are unblocking them, that they can quickly bring you up to speed and you can grasp what they are talking about or at least isolate it to a component and help them make a decision/ escalate to leadership in terms of how the technical challenge risks the business outcome; that’s when they will see value. 

What role does credibility play in influence?

Credibility is the basis of influence. It comes from being consistently accurate, following through on commitments, and representing team progress honestly. Once credibility is established, people are more likely to support your initiatives and collaborate with you. Don’t throw people under the bus. Always frame the problem/roadblock in terms of what is holding a team back from delivering and how they can be unblocked versus X team is missing their commitment. You should always make sure any team that is being called out has a heads up and is present to defend themselves or ask for what they need ( if you aren’t doing so on their behalf).

How do you influence across organizational boundaries?

Focus on shared outcomes rather than ownership. Teams outside your org don’t respond to your authority, but they will respond to a clear connection between your program and their success. Ideally, a shared goal is the best way to cement the commitment and track it to completion.

When should a TPM escalate instead of continuing to influence?

Escalation becomes appropriate when priorities conflict at a structural level. If teams are aligned on the problem but blocked by organizational priorities, leadership alignment is required. Influence should not replace decision-making authority when trade-offs affect multiple teams. Leaders need to be made aware of these key decisions to ensure alignment at all levels.

How do strong TPMs handle resistance from experienced engineers?

Experienced engineers usually resist for a reason. It could be technical complexity, unclear scope, or unrealistic timelines. Addressing those concerns often turns skeptics into strong supporters. Ask the engineer to outline the main cause for their concern and to suggest an alternative. Stay calm, patient, acknowledge them as the expert in the specific area of discussion and show curiosity in trying to learn and understand where they are coming from.  Treat them as you would want to be treated. 

How can TPMs scale their influence as programs grow larger?

By building coalitions rather than relying on individual relationships. Large programs require aligning influential leaders across teams who can reinforce the same message within their own organizations. Make sure to have milestone goals for each team so that you can track them separately and are alerted to deviations sooner. Build a transparent, low effort communication system that is simple to share program status across all teams and limit the number of meetings which have a large attendee list but only share information versus make decisions. Meetings take time away from actual delivery for ICs. Strike a balance where folks can pull the information they need from a single source, while sharing their updates asynchronously. Much of this depends on the org culture in your company.

Authors

Mario Gerard

Mario Gerard

I am a Principal Technical Program Manager (TPM) and have been in the tech industry for over 14 years.

Radhakrishnan Chandrasekaran

Radhakrishnan Chandrasekaran

Experienced Senior Program Manager with a history of working in the automotive connected car industry.